I have trained my body to wake up consistently at a few minutes to or after 6. This allows me some precious moments to relax each morning and just breathe. On this Saturday morning, I woke up restless. I love working from home but it can feel a bit lonely and it’s even more poignant on a weekend morning. As I plan my day the … Continue reading On To The Next One
Warning* Light man-bashing and stereotypical single-too-long male generalisations ahead. Tinder the land of swiping left and swiping right. Arguably, the epitome of our society’s descent into our obsession with appearances. I think people can be quite negative about Tinder but the truth is, our society has matured and with that comes the good and the bad. We have amazing technology that allows us to view … Continue reading 30 Something Dating: The 6 Types of Guys I Met on Tinder
Then they’re the individuals who will call people like me “emotional exhibitionists”. I heard the term the other day and it confused me a bit because it sounds negative but it is kind of what I do. I think the negative connotation is that I am seeking attention – again I think I’m suppose to feel bad about that. Emotional exhibitionist sounds like such an accusation. Yet I am not bothered – I blog for me and anyone who wants to read it – yes it’s a self-centred indulgence but so what. Continue reading The Emotional Exhibition Of Blogging
Time for the delicate balance and weighing of the pros and cons – nobody’s perfect, so you must decide – can I live with these minor negative details and most importantly are they minor details or deal breakers? Physical imperfections are minor (unless you are shallow), it’s the personality clashes that are a big deal. Continue reading How To Form A Real Relationship
I’m a lazy dater and I’m kind of waiting for Mr Right For Me to just drop in my lap. Heck – I wouldn’t know how to go looking for Mr Right, even if someone gave me directions. I guess all I can do is try to be my best self and hope that the Right person will find me.
Still it’s beyond frustrating when the guys who like me, I don’t like them. Luckily, the reverse isn’t true, as I never like anyone who doesn’t like me first – self-preservation and the like. Continue reading The Fault In My Attraction
In essence, the conclusion was that I keep dating superficial men, so that’s why I am uncomfortable in my natural state. I took a moment to think about that – surely he wasn’t right.
Yet come to think of it – I do date a lot of musclebound men – don’t judge me, I just like muscles. I mean I have dated some not so in shape guys – right? Nope – not really, I have tried them on but never gone beyond kissing. Crap – does that mean that I’m superficial too? Continue reading What’s A Girl To Do When She Likes Muscles?
I love sharing my blog. I don’t get to share my writing very often and I get encumbered by the daily pursuit of making money that sometimes I can’t even find time to write. Therefore, I am exceedingly proud of every tiny scrap of discourse that I am able to wrangle from my consciousness and post on my corner of the internet – but alas … Continue reading BPD And Dating
To: The last man I had sex with, Thanks for the orgasms – wish you were more than a dick and tongue. From: Someone you use to know. Continue reading Unsent message #2
They say opposites attract or do they? And if they do is a good thing for a healthy relationship? I remember the movie “Runaway Bride” with Sandra Bullock, a story about this woman who had ditched several guys at the altar and this male reporter who goes to her town to cover the story. The one main thing I remember from that movie is the … Continue reading How To Get A Man? Question 3: Do Opposites Attract Or Should Compatibility Matter?
I started this question and answer series about getting a man last year. I have asked two questions so far – Question 1: To reveal or not to reveal, mainly about how to dress to attract a mate and Question 2: Should I have sex?, pretty self-explanatory about when to start having sex with a potential partner. Well since then I had pretty much, lost … Continue reading How To Get A Man? Returns