Warning* Light man-bashing and stereotypical single-too-long male generalisations ahead. Tinder the land of swiping left and swiping right. Arguably, the epitome of our society’s descent into our obsession with appearances. I think people can be quite negative about Tinder but the truth is, our society has matured and with that comes the good and the bad. We have amazing technology that allows us to view … Continue reading 30 Something Dating: The 6 Types of Guys I Met on Tinder
In essence, the conclusion was that I keep dating superficial men, so that’s why I am uncomfortable in my natural state. I took a moment to think about that – surely he wasn’t right.
Yet come to think of it – I do date a lot of musclebound men – don’t judge me, I just like muscles. I mean I have dated some not so in shape guys – right? Nope – not really, I have tried them on but never gone beyond kissing. Crap – does that mean that I’m superficial too? Continue reading What’s A Girl To Do When She Likes Muscles?
Now for my bone of contention – I met a guy the other day who said to me “You would look better with your natural hair”. Yup, stabbed me right in the ego. I was a little offended. I didn’t ask but my thoughts were – Would I look better because my hair doesn’t look good now or would a natural hair style just fit my face better? Continue reading Men, Black Hair And Me
What I really wanted to call this post was “2 ways you are fucking up when fucking” but alas I chose the positive route instead. A few years ago, I use to talk about sex a lot, primarily in my favourite community chat room and wouldn’t you know it, me and my big mouth had people coming to me for sex advice. I’ve never been … Continue reading 2 Practical Tips To Having Better Sex For Men And Women
I started this question and answer series about getting a man last year. I have asked two questions so far – Question 1: To reveal or not to reveal, mainly about how to dress to attract a mate and Question 2: Should I have sex?, pretty self-explanatory about when to start having sex with a potential partner. Well since then I had pretty much, lost … Continue reading How To Get A Man? Returns
This post was developed from reading this and although I enjoyed reading the article, I was bothered by its contents. Take a minute to read it, he’s a fabulous blogger and author. Here’s the problem – this implication that women are sensitive creatures in need of protection and who are obviously waiting around for some guy to be our boyfriend; even if we are sleeping with him. … Continue reading Sorry, I Don’t Want To Be Your Girlfriend
OK, so I’m single and I’m no spring chicken, nor am I over the hill. Crap this is going to be difficult without disclosing my age. Suffice it to say that I am currently at that age when I am rather uncomfortable about revealing it for fear of judgement 😦 We Jamaicans like to say “as long as your age is still on the almanac, then you are still … Continue reading How To Get A Man? Question 1: To Reveal Or Not To Reveal?