I’ve been on this earth for 34 years and for the last few years, I’ve spent a significant portion of my time completely alone. In actuality, my weekend routine will see me entering my home on Friday evening and the outside world will not see hide or hair of me until Monday morning, unless I poke my head out to collect a food delivery. Yes, … Continue reading Am I Too Good At Being Alone?
Last year I bemoaned the fact that Valentine’s Day was happening on a Friday, this year it’s even worse – it’s on a bloody Saturday (duh). How fucking perfect. I’m not quite hankering for a relationship – fine maybe a tiny bit – but that’s not the main reason for my woes. It’s just that Valentine’s Day reminds me that I have been single for … Continue reading Valentine’s Day Sucks As Per Usual
Been meaning to write since last Saturday, anyway here we go. So, I ended up going out, like I originally wanted. I wanted to go to dinner and I’m a grown woman, so I grabbed a girlfriend and we went to dinner. It actually turned out to be a great night, just 2 women who decided to treat themselves. We talked, laughed, drank wine, ate … Continue reading Valentine’s Day Post-Mortem
Why is being single and celibate such a statement and why do I have to proclaim this? I find myself having to make this distinction, more and more – especially to men and yes, particularly on dates. I can tell that sometimes this is an immediate deal-breaker and other times they will stick around for a while before they get-it that – Yes, I really … Continue reading Single, Celibate And Loving It