I’m gonna out myself as a literary nerd and report that my ideas began with D.H. Lawrence and his novel “Women in Love”. This book was assigned as a part of my English Literature class in high school and my young mind being the sponge that it was, soaked up the theories that the author suggests and somehow continue to resonant with me today. Most … Continue reading Together, Yet Separate: My Perfect Relationship
ou know those relationships that are not going anywhere, but one partner doesn’t know that. When one-half of that relationship is actively looking for another boyfriend/girlfriend, even to the point of going on dates and or worse yet, having other side relationships. I know too many situations like this and it makes me sick. Continue reading Relationship Placeholders
Time for the delicate balance and weighing of the pros and cons – nobody’s perfect, so you must decide – can I live with these minor negative details and most importantly are they minor details or deal breakers? Physical imperfections are minor (unless you are shallow), it’s the personality clashes that are a big deal. Continue reading How To Form A Real Relationship
Now for my bone of contention – I met a guy the other day who said to me “You would look better with your natural hair”. Yup, stabbed me right in the ego. I was a little offended. I didn’t ask but my thoughts were – Would I look better because my hair doesn’t look good now or would a natural hair style just fit my face better? Continue reading Men, Black Hair And Me
Last year I bemoaned the fact that Valentine’s Day was happening on a Friday, this year it’s even worse – it’s on a bloody Saturday (duh). How fucking perfect. I’m not quite hankering for a relationship – fine maybe a tiny bit – but that’s not the main reason for my woes. It’s just that Valentine’s Day reminds me that I have been single for … Continue reading Valentine’s Day Sucks As Per Usual
To: The last man I had sex with, Thanks for the orgasms – wish you were more than a dick and tongue. From: Someone you use to know. Continue reading Unsent message #2
To: The last man I was in love with, Its been five years. Fuck. From: Emotionally handicapped girl Continue reading Unsent message
What I really wanted to call this post was “2 ways you are fucking up when fucking” but alas I chose the positive route instead. A few years ago, I use to talk about sex a lot, primarily in my favourite community chat room and wouldn’t you know it, me and my big mouth had people coming to me for sex advice. I’ve never been … Continue reading 2 Practical Tips To Having Better Sex For Men And Women
I’ve been trying my hand at writing a book of sorts, not sure what format it will take yet but I thought I would share its beginning. Your thoughts and comments would be greatly appreciated. Sex was always a fascination for me. I think it began with Mills and Boons and Harlequin romance novels. Until I read my first romance novel at about 14 years … Continue reading My First Dance With Desire
They say opposites attract or do they? And if they do is a good thing for a healthy relationship? I remember the movie “Runaway Bride” with Sandra Bullock, a story about this woman who had ditched several guys at the altar and this male reporter who goes to her town to cover the story. The one main thing I remember from that movie is the … Continue reading How To Get A Man? Question 3: Do Opposites Attract Or Should Compatibility Matter?
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