I have realised something about some of my past “let’s call them flings” – well other than them being disappointments – they were indecisive as hell, in one way or another. There’s a delicate balance to be found in handling a strong woman, and as strong as we are, we don’t want a man we can walk all over. I’m a feminist and proud but I … Continue reading How To Get A Man? Question 4: Go With The Flow Or Take Charge?
I never knew my father and no he’s not dead, at least I don’t think he is but he very well could be for all I know. I could pass him on the street and not know. As the survivor of a horrific childhood not having a father or even a replacement father figure was just another strike. I wished so often that my father … Continue reading Will You Be My Father Figure?
I’m gonna out myself as a literary nerd and report that my ideas began with D.H. Lawrence and his novel “Women in Love”. This book was assigned as a part of my English Literature class in high school and my young mind being the sponge that it was, soaked up the theories that the author suggests and somehow continue to resonant with me today. Most … Continue reading Together, Yet Separate: My Perfect Relationship
ou know those relationships that are not going anywhere, but one partner doesn’t know that. When one-half of that relationship is actively looking for another boyfriend/girlfriend, even to the point of going on dates and or worse yet, having other side relationships. I know too many situations like this and it makes me sick. Continue reading Relationship Placeholders
Time for the delicate balance and weighing of the pros and cons – nobody’s perfect, so you must decide – can I live with these minor negative details and most importantly are they minor details or deal breakers? Physical imperfections are minor (unless you are shallow), it’s the personality clashes that are a big deal. Continue reading How To Form A Real Relationship
I’m a lazy dater and I’m kind of waiting for Mr Right For Me to just drop in my lap. Heck – I wouldn’t know how to go looking for Mr Right, even if someone gave me directions. I guess all I can do is try to be my best self and hope that the Right person will find me.
Still it’s beyond frustrating when the guys who like me, I don’t like them. Luckily, the reverse isn’t true, as I never like anyone who doesn’t like me first – self-preservation and the like. Continue reading The Fault In My Attraction
To: The last man I had sex with, Thanks for the orgasms – wish you were more than a dick and tongue. From: Someone you use to know. Continue reading Unsent message #2
What I really wanted to call this post was “2 ways you are fucking up when fucking” but alas I chose the positive route instead. A few years ago, I use to talk about sex a lot, primarily in my favourite community chat room and wouldn’t you know it, me and my big mouth had people coming to me for sex advice. I’ve never been … Continue reading 2 Practical Tips To Having Better Sex For Men And Women
They say opposites attract or do they? And if they do is a good thing for a healthy relationship? I remember the movie “Runaway Bride” with Sandra Bullock, a story about this woman who had ditched several guys at the altar and this male reporter who goes to her town to cover the story. The one main thing I remember from that movie is the … Continue reading How To Get A Man? Question 3: Do Opposites Attract Or Should Compatibility Matter?
I started this question and answer series about getting a man last year. I have asked two questions so far – Question 1: To reveal or not to reveal, mainly about how to dress to attract a mate and Question 2: Should I have sex?, pretty self-explanatory about when to start having sex with a potential partner. Well since then I had pretty much, lost … Continue reading How To Get A Man? Returns