How To Get A Man? Question 4: Go With The Flow Or Take Charge?

I have realised¬†something about some of my past “let’s call them flings” – well other than them being disappointments – they were indecisive as hell, in one way or another. There’s a delicate balance to be found in handling a strong woman, and as strong as we are, we don’t want a man we can walk all over. I’m a feminist and proud but I … Continue reading How To Get A Man? Question 4: Go With The Flow Or Take Charge?

Together, Yet Separate: My Perfect Relationship

I’m gonna out myself as a literary nerd and report that my ideas began with D.H. Lawrence and his novel “Women in Love”. This book was assigned as a part of my English Literature class in high school and my young mind being the sponge that it was, soaked up the theories that the author suggests and somehow continue to resonant with me today. Most … Continue reading Together, Yet Separate: My Perfect Relationship

The Fault In My Attraction

I’m a lazy dater and I’m kind of waiting for Mr Right For Me to just drop in my lap. Heck – I wouldn’t know how to go looking for Mr Right, even if someone gave me directions. I guess all I can do is try to be my best self and hope that the Right person will find me.

Still it’s beyond frustrating when the guys who like me, I don’t like them. Luckily, the reverse isn’t true, as I never like anyone who doesn’t like me first – self-preservation and the like. Continue reading The Fault In My Attraction

2 Practical Tips To Having Better Sex For Men And Women

What I really wanted to call this post was “2 ways you are fucking up when fucking” but alas I chose the positive route instead. A few years ago, I use to talk about sex a lot, primarily in my favourite community chat room and wouldn’t you know it, me and my big mouth had people coming to me for sex advice. I’ve never been … Continue reading 2 Practical Tips To Having Better Sex For Men And Women

How To Get A Man? Question 3: Do Opposites Attract Or Should Compatibility Matter?

They say opposites attract or do they? And if they do is a good thing for a healthy relationship? I remember the movie “Runaway Bride” with Sandra Bullock, a story about this woman who had ditched several guys at the altar and this male reporter who goes to her town to cover the story. The one main thing I remember from that movie is the … Continue reading How To Get A Man? Question 3: Do Opposites Attract Or Should Compatibility Matter?

How To Get A Man? Returns

I started this question and answer series about getting a man last year. I have asked two questions so far –¬† Question 1: To reveal or not to reveal, mainly about how to dress to attract a mate and Question 2: Should I have sex?, pretty self-explanatory about when to start having sex with a potential partner. Well since then I had pretty much, lost … Continue reading How To Get A Man? Returns