How To Get A Man? Question 4: Go With The Flow Or Take Charge?

I have realised something about some of my past “let’s call them flings” – well other than them being disappointments – they were indecisive as hell, in one way or another. There’s a delicate balance to be found in handling a strong woman, and as strong as we are, we don’t want a man we can walk all over. I’m a feminist and proud but I … Continue reading How To Get A Man? Question 4: Go With The Flow Or Take Charge?

How To Get A Man? Question 3: Do Opposites Attract Or Should Compatibility Matter?

They say opposites attract or do they? And if they do is a good thing for a healthy relationship? I remember the movie “Runaway Bride” with Sandra Bullock, a story about this woman who had ditched several guys at the altar and this male reporter who goes to her town to cover the story. The one main thing I remember from that movie is the … Continue reading How To Get A Man? Question 3: Do Opposites Attract Or Should Compatibility Matter?

How To Get A Man? Returns

I started this question and answer series about getting a man last year. I have asked two questions so far –  Question 1: To reveal or not to reveal, mainly about how to dress to attract a mate and Question 2: Should I have sex?, pretty self-explanatory about when to start having sex with a potential partner. Well since then I had pretty much, lost … Continue reading How To Get A Man? Returns

How To Get A Man? Question 2: Should I Have Sex?

For anybody who has read my previous post – Single, Celibate and Loving it – you know my current stance on sex. I’m not having it, but it’s a new year and I have been single and celibate for a while so it’s probably time I get back out there. Hence, my “How to get a man?” posts, starting here with Question 1: To Reveal … Continue reading How To Get A Man? Question 2: Should I Have Sex?

How To Get A Man? Question 1: To Reveal Or Not To Reveal?

OK, so I’m single and I’m no spring chicken, nor am I over the hill. Crap this is going to be difficult without disclosing my age. Suffice it to say that I am currently at that age when I am rather uncomfortable about revealing it for fear of judgement 😦 We Jamaicans like to say “as long as your age is still on the almanac, then you are still … Continue reading How To Get A Man? Question 1: To Reveal Or Not To Reveal?