30 Something Dating: The 6 Types of Guys I Met on Tinder

Warning* Light man-bashing and stereotypical single-too-long male generalisations ahead. Tinder the land of swiping left and swiping right. Arguably, the epitome of our society’s descent into our obsession with appearances. I think people can be quite negative about Tinder but the truth is, our society has matured and with that comes the good and the bad. We have amazing technology that allows us to view … Continue reading 30 Something Dating: The 6 Types of Guys I Met on Tinder

How To Get A Man? Question 4: Go With The Flow Or Take Charge?

I have realised something about some of my past “let’s call them flings” – well other than them being disappointments – they were indecisive as hell, in one way or another. There’s a delicate balance to be found in handling a strong woman, and as strong as we are, we don’t want a man we can walk all over. I’m a feminist and proud but I … Continue reading How To Get A Man? Question 4: Go With The Flow Or Take Charge?

The Fault In My Attraction

I’m a lazy dater and I’m kind of waiting for Mr Right For Me to just drop in my lap. Heck – I wouldn’t know how to go looking for Mr Right, even if someone gave me directions. I guess all I can do is try to be my best self and hope that the Right person will find me.

Still it’s beyond frustrating when the guys who like me, I don’t like them. Luckily, the reverse isn’t true, as I never like anyone who doesn’t like me first – self-preservation and the like. Continue reading The Fault In My Attraction

What’s A Girl To Do When She Likes Muscles?

In essence, the conclusion was that I keep dating superficial men, so that’s why I am uncomfortable in my natural state. I took a moment to think about that – surely he wasn’t right.

Yet come to think of it – I do date a lot of musclebound men – don’t judge me, I just like muscles. I mean I have dated some not so in shape guys – right? Nope – not really, I have tried them on but never gone beyond kissing. Crap – does that mean that I’m superficial too? Continue reading What’s A Girl To Do When She Likes Muscles?

My First Dance With Desire

I’ve been trying my hand at writing a book of sorts, not sure what format it will take yet but I thought I would share its beginning. Your thoughts and comments would be greatly appreciated. Sex was always a fascination for me. I think it began with Mills and Boons and Harlequin romance novels. Until I read my first romance novel at about 14 years … Continue reading My First Dance With Desire

How To Get A Man? Question 3: Do Opposites Attract Or Should Compatibility Matter?

They say opposites attract or do they? And if they do is a good thing for a healthy relationship? I remember the movie “Runaway Bride” with Sandra Bullock, a story about this woman who had ditched several guys at the altar and this male reporter who goes to her town to cover the story. The one main thing I remember from that movie is the … Continue reading How To Get A Man? Question 3: Do Opposites Attract Or Should Compatibility Matter?

How To Get A Man? Returns

I started this question and answer series about getting a man last year. I have asked two questions so far –  Question 1: To reveal or not to reveal, mainly about how to dress to attract a mate and Question 2: Should I have sex?, pretty self-explanatory about when to start having sex with a potential partner. Well since then I had pretty much, lost … Continue reading How To Get A Man? Returns